Visitation
Wednesday, July 8
4 to 8 p.m.
Yorktown Funeral Home
945 East Main St., Shrub Oak
Mass
Thursday, July 9
11:15 a.m.
St Elizabeth Ann Seton
1377 E Main St., Shrub Oak
Rosemary McDonald, lovingly known as Roe, Ma, RoRo, Grandma, and GG, passed away on July 3, 2026 surrounded by family, leaving behind a life that was rich in devotion, grace, and enduring love.
Born on May 15, 1937, in New York City, New York, and later raised her family in Yorktown Heights, NY she lived with a spirit that lifted others, a heart that welcomed everyone, and a presence that made every room feel warmer and brighter. She was a woman of Catholic faith, and her life reflected the values she held dear through every season: kindness, strength, generosity, and unwavering love for her family and community.
Rosemary was the beloved wife of the late John A. McDonald, and together they shared 55 beautiful years of marriage filled with commitment, laughter, and deep partnership. She was a proud and devoted mother to Maryann Calabrese and her husband Steven, the late Stephen McDonald and his wife Carol, and Sean McDonald and his wife Molly.
Her love for her children was steadfast and unmistakable, and she carried the joy of motherhood with pride in every chapter of her life. She was equally proud of her seven grandchildren, Chrissy, Heather, Stephen Jr., Leda Marie, Gavin, Shaylene, and Maggie, and her thirteen great-grandchildren, who brought her endless delight and gave her even more reasons to celebrate life with gratitude and wonder. Rosemary attended Gorton High School in Yonkers, New York, and from an early age she carried herself with determination and purpose. She brought that same spirit into her work life, where she served for many years as a sales associate at Alexander’s Department Store. She later worked as a secretary at Jamesway Department Store, where her excellence was recognized with the honor of Regional Executive Secretary of the Year.
In the final chapter of her professional life, she served as the Office Manager at a dental office in Yorktown Heights, New York. Her career reflected not only her strong work ethic, but also her reliability, intelligence, and ability to lead with calm confidence and grace.
Beyond her professional accomplishments, Rosemary was the heart of her family and the steady force that held generations together. She was driven by her love of family and her joy for life, and she gave that love freely and fully. She served as the core of her family with positivity, kindness, support, and championship of all she loved. Her inner strength, resilience, insight, wisdom, and sense of humor helped guide those around her through both ordinary days and life’s greatest challenges. She was a woman of great beauty, style, and grace, with a natural love of fashion and flair that matched the elegance with which she lived her life.
Rosemary never missed an occasion or celebration because she understood that life is meant to be honored, shared, and remembered. She was ever present at sporting events, birthdays, family vacations, and holiday celebrations, and she had a special gift for turning Christmas into something truly magical. Her generosity was boundless, and her love was expressed not only in words, but in the countless ways she showed up for the people she cherished. She loved her community and her friends deeply, and for 20 years she taught Catholic Sunday school, sharing her faith, her patience, and her devotion with young hearts who were fortunate to learn from her.
She adored her husband John and took great pride in the life they built together. Their 55th wedding anniversary stood as a beautiful testament to a marriage rooted in loyalty, tenderness, and shared purpose. She also carried immense pride in her three children, seven grandchildren, and thirteen great-grandchildren, each of whom was a treasured part of her story. Rosemary’s love extended beyond her family as well, and YES, she held a lifelong affection for the Mets, a passion lovingly passed down from her mother, Doris. That connection to her roots was another reflection of who she was, a woman who valued family tradition, shared joy, and the simple pleasures that make life meaningful.
Those who knew Rosemary will remember her as loving, optimistic, and kind. She was a source of encouragement, a model of grace under pressure, and a shining example of how to live with heart, purpose, and dignity. Her life was not defined by one role alone, but by the fullness of all she gave as a wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, friend, worker, teacher, and woman of faith.
She inspired others by the way she lived, and she leaves behind a legacy that will continue to guide and comfort those who loved her. Rosemary McDonald’s life was a blessing, and her memory will remain a source of strength for all who were touched by her warmth and wisdom. She lived with courage, gave with abundance, and loved without hesitation.
Her journey reminds us that a life well lived is one that uplifts others, stays rooted in faith, and leaves behind a trail of love that time cannot erase.
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