Robert Violante, affectionately known as Rob, was born on December 21, 1979, in Yonkers, New York, to loving parents Frank and Martha Violante. The middle of three sons, Rob shared a close bond with his brothers, Chris and Brian.
A gifted athlete from a young age, Rob shined at Somers High School as a standout in both football and basketball. His talent and determination led him to Iona University, where he played collegiate football before continuing his athletic career at the University of Delaware. He then earned a degree in Special Education at Mercy College and later obtaining a master's degree in Educational Administration.
Rob dedicated his life to education and mentorship. He began his professional journey as a special education teacher and rose to the role of Dean of Students at Bergenfield High School in New Jersey. His passion for sports continued as he coached both varsity football and track, inspiring countless students on and off the field.
Rob's impact extended far beyond the classroom and the sidelines. He was known for his warmth, leadership, and unwavering commitment to those around him. A beloved son, brother, uncle, and coach, Rob touched the lives of many and leaves behind a legacy of kindness, strength, and dedication.
He is survived by his parents, Frank and Martha; his brothers Chris (and wife Hoda) and Brian (and wife Laura); his cherished nephews Andrew, Cameron, Dylan, and Jordan; his niece Natalie; and his longtime girlfriend, Dana Brescia. Rob's presence will be deeply missed, but his spirit will continue to live on in the hearts of those who knew and loved him.
Family and friends are invited to Cassidy-Flynn Funeral Directors at 288 East Main Street in Mount Kisco on Tuesday, May 20, 2025 from 3 to 8 p.m. for visitation. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated for Robert on Wednesday, May 21, 2025, at 10 a.m. at St. Patrick's Church, 137 Moseman Road Yorktown Heights, NY10598. Burial will follow St. Francis Cemetery Mt. Kisco, NY 10549.
In lieu of flowers we have set up a memorial scholarship in Rob's honor at Bergenfield High School. If you would like to contribute, please send a check made out to the Bergenfield Board of Education.
In the memo line : The Rob Violante Memorial Scholarship
Mail checks to:
Matt McGrath
Bergenfield High School
80 South Prospect Avenue
Bergenfield, NJ 07621
